My mother was a psych nurse but I guess in the 60s it wasn't so obvious. I'd do things that would make her made. I start cleaning up my room and pick up a doll to put away and then I would start playing with the doll and my room would remain a mess. Anyway what do I do? Who do I see. My employer has an employee assistance program I'm thinking of getting in because I've been suffering an episode of depression for awhile--since the "Great Recession" started. Would they refer me to someone who can help me with ADD? Do I look through the yellow pages and try to find a psychiatrist? Is it expensive to treat?