
Mar 08, 2014, 11:50 PM
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Location: Boston
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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
This is not a relevant response. The claim is that for at least some women, when they are truly in love with someone, the orgasms happen either in the physical presence of the man they are in love with, or his presence in the fantasy life of the mind. Had you had a sample of such women who at the time of rape were 1. deeply in love with somebody, and, 2. they orgasmed during the rape, and, 3. ***importantly***, they didn't hold onto the image of their loved one in theie mind during rape, then such data would have been relevant, but without each and every of the bullet points present, that some women report orgasms during rape is irrelevant to my question - it neither proves nor disproves the claim my first H made. Note that he made the claim about true, genuine love, which is very rare, and for some people, never even happens in their lifetime, so, statistically, it follows that most raped women are not deeply in love at the time of rape.
Again, please wait because I will narrow down the issue considerably, and then irrelevant responses would not arise because the scope of my inquiry will be far clearer.
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This still makes no sense and honestly, I feel like if it were, it would almost be offensive because I highly doubt that women start having fantasies during rape. Rape is entirely different from sex and an orgasm from rape feels confusing and quite violating but is still an orgasm nonetheless. So only women who aren't genuinely in love can orgasm from rape from someone other than who they are in love with? No. The body responds to stimuli. If someone were to touch me in the right places, I'd have an orgasm regardless of if I'm in love with that person or even attracted to that person or even being touched consensually. Love doesn't have anything to do with it because an orgasm is a physical response to stimuli that is either enhances love or is enhanced by love. Maybe I'd have an orgasm quicker if I were genuinely in love with who I'm having sex with or fantasizing about. Maybe I would cum slower with a man if I were in love with someone else because of guilt. Maybe it wouldn't be as good because all orgasms aren't created equal. But it would definitely be possible.
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