LOL I know that one too well. I have a friend who always wants to watch a movie with "the gang" so we go there and she has a lot of say and we choose "her" movie. Then the rest of us try to watch it while she leaves after five minutes to go do dishes or talk on the phone. She watch snippets here and there. Maybe 20 minutes of the entire movie. The rest of the time she is just running around.
If she wants to do that, fine, but then I wonder why she wanted to watch it in the first place. I've never seen her sit through a whole movie or even a 20 minute TV show. She is actually much more still when we're just hanging out. Turning on the movie is like her cue to leave.
Since my focus depends on other people's focus in this matter, I have to focus super hard on the movie and also try to focus away from her running around and talking. If everyone watches the movie together I can get into it.
And she is the one pointing out the ADHD in my other friend... and I'm the one diagnosed ADD. And she is the normal one??? Yup, makes so much sense...
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