I do this to. It is incredibly unnerving for me. To many times we have sex and I cry afterwards. I try to hide and am successful most of the time. I ask my T what causes this. She said in fact that she does this from time to time.

He reasoning as to why this happens was that sex involves lots of emotions, and feelings. It is a time when everyone involved is vulnerable. For us females we often cry and not always for traditional reasons. Her advice to me was to make sure he understands it has nothing to do with him, he didn't hurt you, say anything wrong or anything like that. Use that as a time to cuddle and get close to each other after sex.

There may be some issues regarding sexuality you have not let go of yet. I know I have issues, but mine regard sexual abuse and rape from the long ago past. So T could help with this issues as well.

Good luck with this. Just keep the lines of communication open with you and soon to be H and your T. (H = Hubby, and T =Therapist)