I'm having a LOT of issues with my husband, some a bit too personal to get into. A main concern is that he's basically a pathological liar. He'll tell me what I want to hear . He's told me he had paid bills when he hasn't . He has no concept of a budget or the importance of credit scores. I am taking over paying all the bills now!
I'd probably just leave now if I could financially . But, also because of my faith, I believe divorce should only be considered in extreme circumstances .
Yes, I knew a little bit of this heading into the marriage I suppose. But we had separate finances before, if I had known his situation, I would have at the very least postponed the wedding .
He's a total slob, and leaves his junk and stuff everywhere . Never helps with the dog hardly ever. I come home from work and she usually is crying bcuz she needs water and/or food. I'm tired of feeling like I'm his mother, making sure he does stuff. I'm pretty sure he has adhd (I do as well ) and I think often our moods and bad habits clash.
I feel like he always puts his friends and his hobbies (most of which I'm not into) before me.
I've talked to him before about getting counseling, and he gave me his reasons why it wouldn't help.
Has anyone had any success with marriage counseling? I'd really appreciate any feedback, thanks!