What's the rush? Take your time. Usually a co-dependent is attracted to someone who has some sort of an addiction. The co-dependent tries to fix them and looks the other way when the addict acts out. There is an organization called CoDA (co-dependents anonymous) that has a website that lists the traits of co-dependency. Do a Google search for it. Never rush into a relationship. Always take your time and use your head as much as you use your heart.