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Originally Posted by Phreak
I'm sorry to hear that something triggered you like this.
The important difference as everybody else has said is consent.
BDSM = SSC! Just because YKINMK it does not mean that YKINOK and vice versa.
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yes being that YKINMK is the traditional view I can see why you missed my point about addressing attachment and bonding issues. I was not expressing a view either way on sensation play. I was expressing a thought about sexual abuse and my larger issue BPD. I was also talking about how one is wired...for example
further I will add, I got in trouble as a little boy and I mean little for tying up a neighbor girl. I had no exposure to BDSM at the age of 5. It was how I was/am wired in
connecting.