My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. I'm 23 and he is 26. Several months into our relationship we started having sex. This is my third relationship but first one to have sexual intercourse with. We didn't have any problems at first, just that I was inexperienced. For several months now though, I have realized that I never reach orgasm. I have only had two orgasms the whole time we've been together and that was only because he was wearing one of those icy hot condoms and a vibrator. I do take an SNRI so that might be the culprit, but this no orgasm thing is upsetting me and now it seems I have no interest in sex. My boyfriend gets turned off by my disinterest and it makes me so sad because it's all my fault our sex has gone downhill. I also have body image issues and feel fat and think that my body jiggling during intercourse is disgusting. He doesn't think I'm fat and gets mad when I say I am. All this combined upsets me and makes me not to want to have sex. My boyfriend suggested I go to the doctor about it and maybe get hormone replacement or whatever that's called. I don't know anything about that, and I don't know what to do. I feel like a failure and useless in bed. I cry afterwards because I feel so bad.

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