So me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. I have a slight dilemma, however, it's nothing major and I wouldn't break up with him over it.
When I talk to him about my past (history of abuse), I am quite emotionally numb towards it. I kind of don't care and tell him anything he asks to hear. This might be why, when he gets more upset than I do, I seem to get very "uh.. what?" because I'm not used to it.
I this post is a little messed up, so sorry about that. But could the reason I get so taken aback by how apparently sensitive he is, be because I am 1) used to my past, I know how to deal with it emotionally now and 2) because of what happened, I'm a lot more emotionally numb towards it.
Do I have anything to worry about? I am probably just overreacting, it just bothered me slightly and I need to know that I'm not jumping to assumptions saying he is the one in the 'wrong' here?
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