I had a vaginal acquaintance rape and did not have any good feelings from it. I was infuriated that I had let it happen (because, you know, a neighbor/classmate/friend who had always been so nice and helpful... not your typical monster guy) and later let him know how furious I was via the tone of my voice, although, unfortunately and I regret it, I did not spell it all out in words. So based on my experience, no, I could not see how anything can be pleasurable from a vaginal rape either; it is more unpleasant because of the lack of control (you control blowjobs). Point taken about your personal dislike of the term "fellatio"/"fellate". I very much like it because if does not contain the word "job". If you have feelings for a man, than doing that thing should not be perceived as a "job", right? A "job" is something you are not particularly keen on doing but have to do due to circumstances.

I am confused when you referred to my ex. I have had a few. I tried to use alphanumerics to denote them.

I have no places on the body, even elusive, even migrating or finicky (="yes" today, "no" tomorrow, or "yes" with guyA but "no" with guyB, or "yes" during windy weather and "no" during thunderstroms), that would behave the way you describe yours. I wish I had. I find the idea of orgasming from peeing very lovely, but the closest I came was watching my exH2 pee after sex because it brought us even closer. I did not do it as a rule, but on a couple of occasions when I did, I very much liked it.