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Originally Posted by Lycanthrope
Basinger's idea may work for some rapists. Some men unfortunately are just horny and take it too far. However the power and control type of rapist would hate the idea of a woman offering him a BJ. He wants control and that's taking the control away from him. He'll know exactly what you're doing and it would perhaps even encourage him to rape even more or become more violent ( if that's possible).
He's more likely to do the thing you don't want the most. Many of these assholes are sadists who enjoy humiliating and inflicting as much pain as possible.
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Mine was a garden variety case, and, the guy was of a smaller frame, so I knew I could have fought him physically if not for being in a moving car with him, because I was afraid of a car crash. There are a lot of garden variety, opportunistic rape cases, so Basinger's approach still works for a good chunk of the situations. A garden variety, opportunistic rapist, rather than a control freak, is all too happy to get so lucky so quickly. It basically neutralizes and disarms him in the speediest posssible way. Of course, not getting into dangerous situations in the first place is yet smarter, but by the time this incident happened to me, I had had an uneventful 6 year long history of safe hitchhiking, so I had grown a bit too self-assured.