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Originally Posted by growlithing
I feel like if I consented to giving my rapist head, he would have raped me anyway. I think it would have just made me feel even more guilty when he actually forced himself on me because then I could think that I wanted it. If the guy actually stopped pursuing you after you gave him head, I could see it as being very empowering, but in a lot of situations, it could just be the precursor to being rape.
I think you need to be careful when you start quantifying rape as "worse" or not as bad.
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I agree about feeling guilty. The rape is about power. By consenting you are giving him more power and control. You aren't taking it at all. I don't see it being empowering under any circumstance. Honestly I can't even fathom this being a good idea.
Here's where I see this going. It goes to court and the defense argues you wanted it because you volunteered to give head. How is that empowering?! So now the one thing that would be satisfactory...putting him away... Is gone. There's guilt.
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