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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
I had a vaginal acquaintance rape and did not have any good feelings from it. I was infuriated that I had let it happen (because, you know, a neighbor/classmate/friend who had always been so nice and helpful... not your typical monster guy) and later let him know how furious I was via the tone of my voice, although, unfortunately and I regret it, I did not spell it all out in words.
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Here you are actually taking responsibility for the rape. "I was infuriated that I had let it happen". It isn't any woman's fault for getting raped. If you are taking responsibility and don't get that much pleasure in the physical act that might be why you are ok with fallatio as a bargaining chip. Believe me when you are forced you get no pleasure out of it. You can orgasm but it's strictly a physical response. And many women don't know that so their guilt is even heavier. This is also true of men who are raped, btw.
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