Well, here's the situation.

It might not be happening.

Was supposed to happen today, and we talked a lot about different things (I was not having a good time lately) but he told me that if we're going to do this, that it has to be "in the moment" and that we shouldnt just plan for it. He said that if it happens, then it happens. Will let you all know if it happens or not before he leaves in a bit over a month.