I think you're missing the point. Snarky daddy was sharing about his sexual abuse and instead of supporting him you were defending your lifestyle. This isn't Fetlife. This is psych central, a place where people go to get help with mental health problems. He wasn't saying it wasn't ok to do those things. He was saying that's how he was abused, and for the record I'm the one who encouraged him to post here about it because I thought it would be helpful.

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