I woke up today at half 7 to try and help my boyfriend get to his exam. He kept complaining and telling me I was making him cold. I went to set his clothes out near him so he wouldn't get cold trying to find them. He said I was making him cold by moving. I said he needs to drink his shake as he'd reminded him to 'make sure he got it' the night before. He said I was meant to get it. I said I didn't remember the recipe and asked him to tell me it so I could make it. He said no, he'll do it. It's not like I care anyway. Then I was trying to gently get him out of bed, asking what's the latest he wanted me to let him stay there. he wouldn't say. then stayed there ages trying to get warm because apparently I was making him cold. He kept saying I wasn't doing anything to help but he wouldn't tell me what to do. Then he went to make his shake, came back and dropped it on the floor (I didn't realise that's what happened) and started swearing and trashing his room. I stayed in bed and started crying because I didn't know what was going on, I was scared and I didn't know how to help. Everything I did seemed to make him more mad. Then he was shouting at me saying 'are you even going to say anything?? you don't even care!'. so i said yes I did, I just didn't know how to help, I'd already asked. Then he said I should have made his shake because he told me to last night. I said I thought he just told me to remind him. He said no, that's not what he said. I said that's what I thought he'd said and besides, I'd still sked to make it and he said no.he starts getting mad and saying I always want to argue instead of caring for him. I said sorry, I wasn't trying to argue I just thought he was being a **** throwing things around when I was only trying to help. He then started throwing things around including the chair next to me. Then blaming me for his having only half an hour to get to the exam. I said no problem, it takes you 20 minutes and you're ready. He says no, we need to do this. He says I only care about myself. he gets mad at me for crying. He says when he needs me I'm never there and I'm selfish. he starts shoving the clock in my face and shouting. eventually he starts saying it's not my fault and he's just stressed and i shouldn't takee it personally. so i give him a hug and say I understand, don't worry, just go to your presentation. he says he can't because he only has 25 minutes. I say that's fine, it only takes 20 to get there, make your shake again and i'll clean the mess. he says no, he can't, it's too late. then starts telling me about how i'm selfish and don't care again. i start crying and don'tsay anything. he says this is a signof me only caring about myself. I say ok, now go to your presentation. he says he can't, there's only 20 minutes. this goes on until 5 to when eventually he accepts that I say I'm sorry and it's not his fault he was stressed and he's being nice to me again and says sorry too. then as we're walking up the street past my house he stops and starts telling me i'm never there for him again and he can't go to the exam because he's worried about how our relationship doesn't withstand hard times. i say me too, but it was early and you were stressed, it'll be ok. he says it's my fault it won't work because I didn't comfort him and ask him what was wrong when he was swearing and shouting and ripping the room apart and insulting me. he says i just give up and cry when things get hard. he goes on and on until i say i'm cold and want to go in the house. he says 'see' and storms off and i say good luck. now i have to leave for my exam in 8 minutes and i just want to give up and go back to bed.