thanks mast .ever sense my son has come home my family has felt the need to just emotionally beat the crap out of me . I cant really even describe what they are doing. but I do see that they do not hold my son accountable for any decisions he makes that they don't agree with. instead they hold me accountable for it because I am his mother. therefor I am a failure because I cant make my son see things the way they do. but it isn't his fault it is mine . it is like they just love him and to his face say kind things because they care about him and then attack me after for things . and my husband says nothing ,my stepmother eggs my farther on , my son has started to be as disrespectful to me as my farther is because he sees it is ok . im just so beat down because the things they say are true to some extent but it still hurts. I just hate them all right now . and me .