I can definitely relate to what you're saying here....my T has told me before that it's like I have a bond with my parents that affects my life. They feel one way, I feel the same. I don't know what to do about it though. He said something about it being intrapsychic or something like that (?) How do you know that all the other relationships aren't the same? Not trying to cast doubt, but I have trouble seeing clearly....if all my relationships (not that I have many but still) are not at all like I have been viewing them....well that just blows my mind