I've been married for almost a year now and I've been with my wife for almost 5 years. I have a problem with talking about how I feel with my wife do too some embarassment I have with speaking about the size of my penis. Go ahead and laugh get it out of the way. OK now that's over. I feel like I don't please her properly in bed. She says she has no problem with our sex life but I believe otherwise. I've always had this thing about myself. I hate my penis. Don't get me wrong I understand that I'm a man and do not wish too be anything else. I flat out just wish it was BIGGER. I've learned to live wih what I have but when I look at myself in the mirror I think less of myself as a man. Meaning I'm ashamed of what I got . This really bothers me all day everyday. Then I find out about a video tape she made about 6 years ago before I knew her. On this tape she and an old boyfriend were having sex and It seems too me she enjoyed that more than I have ever made her feel during sex. Now every time she wants too have sex I am completely turned off with this feeling of WHAT FOR? Ican't make love too u like that! So what do I do , and how do I talk too her please help. ASAP