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Old Mar 11, 2014, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by AngstyLady View Post
Ok, so about a week ago I posted an angry rant about my mom and how overbearing she is. And she is, and so I am trying to limit my interaction with her- she's like obsessed- she has disregarded/disrespected me by not listening to me when I tell her to stop 'advising' me on what to wear, what to do, call me at all times of the day just to 'talk' and including texts wishing me a great day and telling me to 'rise and shine' and the insane lines of random emoticons and the constant reminders about **** I know how to manage (like bills and other mundane things) She's so detrimental to my development. I need to get my birth certificate from her, as well as my social security card, as she insists on still; 'keeping it safe' for me. What am I? 12 years old? I'm 31 for ****'s sake! She also refuses to change my permanent address from hers.
So, I may have said something to her last night on the phone that pissed her ff and now I haven't heard from her all day and a bit over an hour ago the thought of her crossed my mind and I texted her "How are you doing?" with a heart and smiley face emoticon and haven't heard back from her. I'm trying not to call her.
I feel bad, but I know this isn't a healthy relationship

~Oh I just realized I missed a call from her because my music was blasting too loud- I listened to the message and I don't want to call her back- she refers to me as 'sweetie,' something else I told her to stop calling me thousands of times. I really believe she's emotionally immature. God damn it! I shouldn't have even texted her! This whole relationship is ****ed!
"she refuses to change my permanent address from hers" Um, this is something YOU can do if you've moved out. It's not HER responsibility anyway nor does she have a say on what is listed as your permanent address. Go to the USPS and have it changed, contact the places that have your old address and change it directly with them. Problem solved.

Next you go and file for a certified copy of your birth certificate. She needs to give you your S.S. card period. You're an adult and she has no right to keep it. Get the law involved if you have to. Report it as lost and get a new SS card.

After that, cut off any other things she has to hold over your head and you need to take control of your life yourself. She will never relent you have to stand up yourself.

I'm sorry you're going through this but there are ways out
Thanks for this!
AngstyLady, Trippin2.0