Sometimes when something has been on my mind for a long time I just have to ask. I asked for a better understanding of the client-therapist relationship. It made me really nervous to ask because I knew the subject of boundaries would come up. Her answers were actually a relief. It would seem her boundaries are not so stiff as I had supposed. That helped me relax. As a joke, I asked her if she would invite me to church. She laughed, and pointed both hands at me, and said, now you are crossing a boundary! We both had a good laugh at that one.
Hope you are feeling better.