Thread: Calling T "mom"
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Old Mar 11, 2014, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Amelia112 View Post
If my T would call me sweetheart or baby, I would probably want to punch her :-) I mean, without putting it down, is that not a little creepy for you? Just asking, not judging! When I read this, it made me cringe. Just as when you said she sees you and treats you like a daughter.


There was a certain kind of therapy once called "Reparenting" It was a form of therapy where the T actually treated her their clients like their children. They even adopted them a lot of the times. That therapy became VERY controversial and ended in numerous lawsuits and was subsequently deemed unethical to practice. Today the Schema therapy has adapted a few of the reparenting techniques, but in a way more safe and secure way.


But in my honest opinion, there seems something strange about a T who calls a client baby or sweetheart. Or who takes on the very role of a mother or father down to the scolding.

Just my opinion though.

You lost me after "they even adopted them a lot of the time". Oh boy that is a fantasy I cannot allow myself to even consider possible.

No it isn't creepy to me. I like it. I like it a lot.