--Consistent

--Doesn't miss sessions or cancel at the last minute

--Willing to stick with me as long as I need

--Has his or her own life mostly together and doesn't use me for validation. (I had a bad experience with a T who needed more therapy than I did.)

--Caring personality

--Curious

--Well read

--Appreciation for my quirks

--Comfortable with sex, sexuality, masturbation, swear words, money, real talk

--Intuitive and insightful

...Incidentally, the T I have now isn't good with numbers, math, or dealing with technology. And I don't care. I don't need a tech-savvy therapist!