Thanks for this thread. I have enjoyed reading the many post.

As for boundaries, sometimes I think it is just some disgruntled PC Poster that saw the word "boundaries" in a nondescript, long forgotten psych journal only found deep in the bowels of some medical library (easier done on the Internet these days) to haunt the crap out of people that come to these forums — and now is a Psych Central construct.

The above paragraph is just me master bating my mind in amusement.