I have issues with my inlaws too. Mostly it is my abilities to perceive situations that cause my problems and other problems in the family. I try to put on a happy face during gatherings but I really get fired up when my MIL is manipulating others in the family and it is hard.

My marriage counselor has really helped me to look at it from a non judgemental perspective. She said some people thrive on conflict especially if they grow up with it. She also said that MIL probally feels threatened by me and that it isn't something to take personally. She told me that I can only be who I am and that is really it. She also told me to talk to hubby about it. These things have helped us.

Just remember it is almost always difficult with inlaws. Ask a group of people how they feel about their inlaws and most will agree it is difficult for one reason or another. If you love this man it will be worth working to deal with these people no matter how crazy they are.

Meachie