My husband lost his mother to whom he was extremely close nearly 1 year ago. We've been married about 9 months, and over time I've noticed that he seems to be dealing with her death easier than in past. However, even though he acts happy and is always affectionate toward me, he still says he is sad every day and says that even though he has a smile on his face he still has sadness in his heart. I asked him if his behavior was genuine when he would joke around and laugh with me and he said it was, but he says that even though he has "moments of happiness" he still has sadness in his heart. Is this normal behavior? I'm at a loss of what to think at times because I havent suffered a loss of a parent as he has. I try to be understanding and compassionate toward him, especially when he is having a really sad day (which have become fewer and fewer over time). I also feel bad because I cant take the sadness away which is something I would love to do since I am his wife. We are expecting our first child in four months. My only hope is that our baby will help bring him happiness. I told him the other day that I think the baby will make our lives better. He said "She already has" So, I am hopeful he will continue to get better. Do any of you have any advice or persective on my husband's behavior? Sometimes I feel clueless. Thanks!