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Old Mar 12, 2014, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted by doyoutrustme View Post
Honestly, and openly. Tell her you are concerned about the cutting, maybe reassure her she won't get in trouble/hospitalized, you just want to be here for her. That you love her. And validate that it must be hard to feel better if she needs to cut to relieve her pain.
Be calm, don't judge and love.

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Perhaps it wouldn't be the wisest to promise she wouldn't be hospitalized...I mean I agree about reassuring her she wont get in 'trouble' like be punished but depending on how bad the self harm is and if there are suicidal thoughts perhaps hospitalization isn't entirely out of the picture no matter what.

I agree with the rest though.
Thanks for this!
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