hi guys good advice as always. I would like to ask butterfli is this something that you have issues with yourself ? you do of course not have to answer that. I ask because i have and have been in a similar situation with my daughter. ON the one hand i felt slightly better equiped in how to deal with it, what not to say and do ect. but also the double whammy of discovering my daughter is doing this and actually knowing how bad she must be feeling ,without all the other stuff like after emotion and saftey.my thoughts are with you both