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Originally Posted by CastlesInTheAir
Would you take this as a compliment or would you view it as somewhat degrading and also question thier intent as only sexual? Or have I gotten too uptight?
He sent me this "I'm not always horny, you're just really sexy."
Or am I supposed to just laugh it off?
I've told this dude only friends a billion times ....
I've even told him I'm "involved" with someone.
At the time if it were possible I would have had to keep myself from slapping the ***** out of him.
Am I wrong for being annoyed?
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You have every right to be annoyed. it is not only disrespectful but just plain rude. I don't get men that think women find it attractive for men to come onto them overtly sexual. AFAIK most women want a gentleman as friends and lovers.
Even if you were single, it would be totally inappropriate to talk to you that way. So in this case he is completely out of line in that not only have you told him friends only but that you're already involved. Why even keep in touch with such an ignoramus?