YES! All the time. What I'm learning, though, is that they wouldn't offer to do these things if it wasn't something they wanted to do. We don't always have to earn or be able to justify someone else's kindness. It's really hard to accept, but I think there comes a point where you just kind of have to say to yourself - "they are being nice and I can accept that without feeling guilty or undeserving." I've found that the more I tell myself that, the more I start to believe it.