There is a saying that goes
"a guy who is nice to a pretty girl but is rude to a waitress/waiter, isn't a nice guy"

Social networking for me gives me a pretty dim view on men and relationships. When you mix that with experiences I've had, its even bleaker. You take a guy that's been married for years and he's trying to cheat on his wife on Facebook, or take the guy that plays this "suburban" straight lace man, trying to cheat on his girlfriend. On top of that they think they can talk to you like your some porn star on a party line. Then you have the whole "side chick" talk. The funny thing about that one is instead of degrading the man for what he's doing, both women go at each others throats degrading each other, knowing that the a hole is feeding both of you nothing but crap. You shouldn't be happy being a "main chick," you should be the only chick. Not only that I would be pissed that he thinks of women in that regard in the first place. And I dunno when men determine the "worth" of a woman based on looks and is down right cruel, that gets me too. Its one thing to not be attracted to someone, its another thing to verbally abuse someone because your perspective is so slanted. And these men have kids, and if they happen to have a daughter, they are suddenly a feminist when it comes to how a boy/guy/man will treat thier daughter. Yet, they treat thier wives, girlfriends, baby's momma, like its a friggin game, like you're pieces on a board.

Grrrr