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Originally Posted by skies
I'm with Elektra here-she realized she f-d up. Unless you are stating only the negative aspects of the conversation and leaving out positive words exchanged during the session, she sounds just like a Mom who is angry with something she did with her child then later realized was a mistake. And like Asia said, maybe burned out-perhaps from trying too hard. Seriously. It does sound horrible. 
But I also agree with Hazel and hope that you give reparation of the relationship a chance. |
But how did she **** up??? I don't get it?? It was
working for me. Slow, but definitely working.
The other bits of the conversation were things like: 'you have been so unhappy for so long, you have had enough' and 'you need to work out what you want' and 'you need to realize your own power, it doesn't have to be like this' and saying she really cares about me (I do believe this) and that it was how much she cares coupled with how high my defences are that led to our strange dynamic. So they are kind of positives. But I felt like she was exasperated and angry at me the whole time, even as she was saying 'I love you'. Wtf.