I'm so sorry that you got that kind of response from your therapist. Do you think this was a moment or sessions x2 of countertransference for her, especially, because she is having a few trials in her personal life? Hopefully both of you can talk about the past 2 sessions. You are saying you are not ready for less contact, and, now, even less. and, your therapist is saying it's time to spread your wings. I think it should be a joint decision, so hopefully you will have the words and the strength to put your immediate needs on the table.

Whatever is happening is about her, not about you, Girl. I'm sending positive thoughts your way.

GTGT