I think it would be wise to discuss this in depth with your T before making any decision. About a month ago I was having huge doubts about my T. Behind his back, I consulted another T for 1.5 hours. I talked about my current T for much of that time. Then I told my T that I had seen someone else and we talked about it. In the end, it brought us closer together.

I never had doubts about my T's competence or style, however. My concerns were mostly in that I am very attracted/attached to him and I was scared. But, if I had simply terminated I would never have grown the way I have in that month. Something t consider, but follow your gut.