Healing - My H see the T also and I do not badger him. I always ask him though "Is there anything that happened in T that he would like to talk about". I ask because I care about him not because I care about what they were discussing. He tells me absolutely nothing that they discuss. And I am good with that. He is not good with me not telling him though.

Nichole - My H has stopped many of his abusive behaviors. T has helped a lot. He no longer blocks the door way and won't let me past, he no longer hovers over me and yells when we argue, he no longer bumps into me by "accident". Things have improved but still have a ways to go.

emomom - we drive separate almost all the time. I am to shook up emotionally to deal with him most of the time after our sessions. There have been times when it simply was not safe to leave with him. I have hung out at the T's office for an additional hour and given him time to cool down. I was so glad my T cares, and glad she got to see his anger first hand.