S4, you are so right. He knows we are talking about us stuff. It is causing him to be insecure, even though he won't admit it. And he is projecting those insecurities off onto me.

I am not giving in. He has taken everything else from me, he can not have the peace of mind I have with my T away from me. That is my only safe place and I am not giving that to him to. Then I really would have nothing.