Thread: Is this rude?
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Old Mar 13, 2014, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Asiablue View Post
I think it's a very long way of saying " i preferred the older picture."
Yes, it is, and I wanted to focus on that part- I want her to hear "I loved your last photo" - I don't want to be critical, except I just want to see if she'd switch back as I really really preferred the last photo and it's all I really get to see of her.

Maybe I should edit it more- just talk about the positives of the last photo, not really the negatives of this one so much. Or should I say nothing at all.

I do get really wordy, especially when I'm anxious.

Maybe if I just wrote (if she says ok to feedback.)

"I really appreciated your prior photo, and I know it's not my place, but I wanted to ask if you would look at both and just possibly consider switching back. I really had a sense of your warmth, professionalism, and comfort when I saw that photo during our past sessions."

It's just... I don't want her to think I'm being arbitrary- I want her to know I tried to get used to the new photo, but I have to look at it a few hours a week and it's downright dark and a bit foreboding.

Last edited by Leah123; Mar 13, 2014 at 11:56 AM.