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Originally Posted by Rohag
Doesn't sound stupid to me...
Is this "assignment" having the effects the T expected or desired?
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Not sure... I can't say she was evasive in her reply... but she responded directly to it and that was that:
To not draw too much conclusion from other people views... that it could be as much a reflection (negativity) of them than anything else... and that she was sorry I had a rough time with it.
Asked me to reflect more on the characteristics she put down to begin with and she believes they are more true to character.
I thanked her for her time and pretty much put 'will do!'.
With that said, the person in question knows me very well...
when the cracks began to show and he realised it as 'I have to be more careful with flippant remarks'.. he did try to stem some of the damage... that in his opinion those 'criticisms' where in some respects towards work, that he believes that I am more creative brain centred and that the job in itself is probably not my best fit (I put a stopper on my thinking to that before it opened another whole new can of worms

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Obviously at that time, the nerves were jangled and the intrusive thoughts were in overkill mode so it didn't have much effect... but today I have been able to dissect the above and I see his point.
So yeah... that was just one person... 4 to go and god knows what 'fun and games' I'm going to have with them
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Independent Mental Health Advocate (IMHA): UK