Thread: Is this rude?
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Old Mar 13, 2014, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Leah123 View Post
How can I not consider the photo at all? I look at it a few hours a week. I think physical appearance is part of what we take away from our interactions with people. I can't help that I have five senses, and I don't want to just.... say "ignore the photo" forever.... it doesn't seem practical.
That's the thing... I'ts her professional representation of herself directed toward her clients. You are one of her clients. If it bothers you, you should mention it. However, I do believe it isn't worth your time dwelling upon it. It's her career, but your session. State your peace, and move forward. You have every right to say something about it (especially if it bothers you), but remember... she has every right to do nothing about it.

Maybe you should ask her why she changed it? Why does she prefer the new picture compared to the old one? Sometimes understanding a person's motives or preferences can help you acclimate or accept the new status quo.
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Thanks for this!
Leah123