Granite, I strongly believe you are misinterpreting this to match the messages you get from your family that you are not worthy of being treated with care. Don't believe the lies your family taught you. Your T cares and is completely furious with your family -- not you. Your are just assuming she's mad at you because you assume everyone is mad at you due to your history.

T's aren't made of teflon. They hear our stories and feel very strong emotions about what people have done to us, what we've been through. She may have been a bit overcome with her own feelings about your family's mistreatment of you and let that come through in her speech and behavior in your session. It happens. But that was about her and her feelings of anger about them, AND her feelings of caring and concern for you. It WASN'T against you in any way.