Just to add perspective, as I was talking to a coworker about this little story, today. As of last year, I was divorced, what, three years? Knew someone, casually, platonically, online. Had waltzed back into a forum, I used to frequent to him telling about his toddler. Ready for some math? So, if divorced roughly the same time, yadda yadda about how whatever the ex wife was, right? riddle me this...TODDLERs are how old? see??