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Originally Posted by CastlesInTheAir
Would you take this as a compliment or would you view it as somewhat degrading and also question thier intent as only sexual? Or have I gotten too uptight?
He sent me this "I'm not always horny, you're just really sexy."
Or am I supposed to just laugh it off?
I've told this dude only friends a billion times ....
I've even told him I'm "involved" with someone.
At the time if it were possible I would have had to keep myself from slapping the ***** out of him.
Am I wrong for being annoyed?
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I'd view it, as degrading. And, it's really crossing lines of respect, because you've asked him to stop. He's taking advantage of 'friend' status, and pressuring you, in a way that says he's only being your friend because he views you as sexy and it arouses him, evidently.
What causes you, to not just walk completely away? Ignoring, a man like this, doesn't solve anything. And clearly, saying no doesn't either.
What's tugging at your heart strings with this one? (I don't mean romantic heart strings, but the heart strings, of wanting someone undeserving of you and your friendship, in your life?)