Hmm. I guess I've worried about this before but I had a nasty roommate last year and it just kind of made me give up about other people haha. I'll be polite and what not but friendship is a two way street so if you aren't giving any I will leave. I don't really care as much about people's opinions anymore because they will think the way they think regardless if I'm there or not and if they judge me on whatever I'm doing at the time or what I look like I wouldn't want to be friends with them anyways. If I'm really excited about a new friend I tend to go out of my way to do stuff but it's my own choice so I don't feel any guilt over it. Although I have learned to be cautious in how much I give because sometimes you're just feeding a black hole haha. I guess I've never really thought of people pleasing in a negative connotation. It's been kind of simple for me. I like to please people so I will please people. But if you're rude or not interested I will take my friendship and offers elsewhere :P