I wouldn't even call it transference, to me, though I understand I don't have all the details, your reaction was totally understandable given how she changed the parameters of the contact so recently, and let her exasperation show through in a place that's supposed to feel safer, and seemed to make a major flip-flop as to how she thought you were progressing in therapy. I'm sure she had her reasons, but don't discount your perceptions. I'm so glad you're going to talk it out. I hope it heals better than ever. That's the only upside of ruptures sometimes.