I think we are back to good....It definitely changed things between us but I feel closer to him. I think it helped to repair the rupture and everything. But ****, it sure took a long time! It helps that my T is very introspective and willing to look at himself. I think he uses his reactions or feelings in session to gage what's going on with me.

When I went into the next session, I let him have it lol Well, I let him have it in my quiet, nonassertive way. In my mind, I told him off. But I'm sure I was much more diplomatic in real life