For me, I'm easy to forgive someone if they say/do something that hurts my feelings if it wasn't unintentional. Especially if they don't know what I'm sensitive about. I guess the dangerous thing is, if I love someone, I'm more likely to forgive something intentional. I don't know about within the confines of a relationship or not since I've never been in one (I'm always the girl on the side), maybe it would be different? I wouldn't be trying to become the "main girl", so maybe I wouldn't so easily forgive someone who implies that I'm fat when they know that I used to weight 50+ pounds more and "I am fat" has been drilled into my head enough that hearing someone imply that makes me see myself only as fat again, even when I'm visibly still losing weight.

Another weird thing (at least I think it's weird) is that the last guy I had feelings for (which at the time felt like love) reminded me disturbingly of my own dad. I mean, I know that has happened to other people, but still…

And he gave me the affection that I always wanted from somebody…anybody. It's difficult to have to give that up not knowing if I'll ever experience it again.