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Originally Posted by CastlesInTheAir
Would you take this as a compliment or would you view it as somewhat degrading and also question thier intent as only sexual? Or have I gotten too uptight?
He sent me this "I'm not always horny, you're just really sexy."
Or am I supposed to just laugh it off?
I've told this dude only friends a billion times ....
I've even told him I'm "involved" with someone.
At the time if it were possible I would have had to keep myself from slapping the ***** out of him.
Am I wrong for being annoyed?
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I think you are overreacting. He makes immature comments. All you need to do is tell him " look we're friends, but I don't like these sexual comments because I'm involved with someone else and you're making me feel uncomfortable, and I would appreciate it as a friend if you stop unwanted compliments".
That should be enough for him to get the message. If he persists with the silly remarks then cut him off as a friend. It's not rocket science what you need to do here. But getting worked up over his silly remarks isn't going to solve anything.