You are right you are not the only one that deals with these kinds of feelings.... I know several women that feel like you do and they have gone years with out a check-up due to these feelings. ((( hugs )))

I personally go every year now (to be healthy) and I always make sure that my doctor is a FEMALE - I pick an Internal Medicine Doctor that way she can treat me for it all - Yearly Check-up, my PAP and any thing else that ails me..... I get referrals to see a specialist if needed.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -