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Old Mar 14, 2014, 04:16 PM
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I got the same creepy feeling as silent void as soon as I started reading you post. A more sensitive, more socially appropriate T would not have pushed you about this. I second the opinion of find another T, preferably female. I am very biased about male Ts and young female clients. I don't know how old you are, but it just makes me uneasy, especially when csa is involved. Its very unfair but it is one of my personal biases.
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Agree with Lauliza, I got a creepy feeling too, he should not have pushed you on this issue. I would be more comfortable with a female T
I understand your opinion. It's true that my T may seem weird and not very good at dealing with this. But he is not like that. I thought the problem was me, I thought something was wrong with me for being so uncomfortable. I will talk about this next week. But I don't want you to think he is a bad man or a bad therapist because of this. He's been very patient before, and I don't think he was trying to hurt me.
I have to precise that the abuse I have suffered has been from my aunt... So I actually feel better with a male therapist.

I am 20 by the way.

Last edited by LesFleursDuMal; Mar 14, 2014 at 04:41 PM.