Hi again Brokenentity: I forgot something. I don't know how this slipped my mind. And I don't know if it will be of any use to you either. But one of the biggest things that I do involves grooming & dress. For example: I like to smell nice. So I use some nicely scented skin lotions after my showers. The one I'm using now smells like cocoa. I've also let my hair grow out. It's still not REAL long. There are men who have longer hair than mine. But it's fairly long... it almost covers my ears. I don't have pierced ears. But many men do nowadays. I pluck my eyebrows... not to the extent women do. But enough to keep them looking neat. I also sometimes use clear nail polish. It's pretty unobtrusive. I've also stocked my wardrobe with articles of men's clothing that is somewhat feminine looking: pinks, flowered prints & other pastel colors. Allot of times these kinds of things can be purchased at discount clothing stores because many men won't wear them. So I buy them at a discount! I have also acquired some pieces of jewelry. It's all either men's jewelry or unisex.

The point here is that you can do allot for yourself in terms of how you look (and smell) while still remaining totally within the male realm in terms of what you use. This is actually much easier to do today than it would have been a few years ago. It's probably not where you want to end up. But it may help until such time as you're able to bring forth your feminine persona... and there's hope in that!